Three Areas within us

There are three areas in our lives
1. Areas outside of our control
2. Area within our influence
3. Area within our control

Areas outside of our control such as we are born as male or female, we are born without being able to choose our parents, the weather, there was a helicopter suddenly fell on us, and others.
That thing above is not always absolute. Could be our sex became something in our control if it found the technology to change this (I do not recommend this)

Area within the influence of our example our children, our friends, our wives and others. if economic circumstances, political? Economics, politics is not something within our control, but we can still influence. Thus, economic and political situation is something in our influence.

Are our children is something in our control? Not. Our son is just something in our influence. We can not control it, for example, if he does not want to eat, then our children is something under our influence.
If our pets? Our pets is something within our influence, not in our control. For example our beloved dog, we can not control it if he continues to bark. We can only influence it.

Continue thing that is in our control what is it?
Something within our control is something that is within us, like our emotions.


There are two couples inspirational story, namely Elvis Presley and W. Mitchel

Elvis Presley, the man is very handsome, very eloquent in singing, famous and rich. When he did not feel happy, she finally thought, I'll be happy if you have a home. After a house was not happy. Finally he was thinking "I will be happy if it has a beautiful couple. He even had multiple sexual partners, among others, with Dixie Locke, Anita Wood, Ann-Margret, Linda Thompson, Ginger Alden, and Priscilla. But from there he found no happiness . Because did not find happiness in the end he started using drugs. Was one point is enough? apparently not, try the next two points. Are two grains enough? Apparently not. the next five points. whether the five grains enough? did not. Finally he was using 35 grains until she died.

This story is far different from the W Mitchel. He is a young man who is very big hobby of riding motorcycles. One time he was riding his bicycle on a highway at speeds approaching 200 km / hr. While on a trip on his motorcycle suddenly disrupted. When he turned the carburetor when the motorcycle is still running. At the time raised his head suddenly in front of McDonald's there was a truck stop. In the split second she tried to deflect his motorcycle. Bike finally into the space underneath the truck. Lucky he did not hit the truck, but he burned with his motorcycle. Condition 90% body burns. His handsome face was also scratched the pavement, so that the plastic surgery seven times also remain ugly face.
Finally W Mitchel hospitalized. But because his emotions are good then the condition is still ugly face used to scare the nurses. After recovering he can lead a normal life, and finally even he has three companies to finally have their own helicopters. He also married a woman he loves.

One day Mitchell drove his private plane with three of his friends. But on the way to crash the plane due to clogged fuel, until finally three of his friends were killed. Mitchel condition is very pathetic. He was paralyzed neck down, the voice of his mouth can not get out, even she can not swallow food. Even more pathetic, blood money can not breathe unless wearing hearing aids. All I could do was blink his eyes. With such conditions, he should have the right to mourn. But luck also could only blink, because if they want to commit suicide with a blink of her eyes so she will not die as well. Communication with Mitchel is very difficult.

Finally a nurse trying to make communication with him. One blink means yes and two blinks mean no. He chose the alphabet to 26 letters strung together into sentences. For example apakhah letter I? if yes continue, if not replaced. After the first letter is true for instance asked whether the letter S? if so forwarded. Does the R next, if so then continued until finally formed sentences WIFE. Mitchel means longer needs his wife.

One day the doctor came and said, "beginning today, do you have to plant, you will live with depending on others." When the doctor said so, Mitchell said even with the language cues, "I'll get out of this hospital, I will be independent." The doctor said "not possible". Finally, Mitchell said in sign language "Do ye the Lord." With conditions like that Mitchel was not depressed but instead challenged.

His wife accompanies him only lasts for three weeks, after that she ran off with another man carrying a treasure. Faced with such circumstances he was even more challenged.

Finally he asked the nurses try to release the breathing aids. Direct nurse said "do not, then you die." Mitchel said, "yes, do not stay long, I want to learn to breathe it." Because the demand for continuous Mitchel prawat finally tried it. After trying it affect the Mitchel could not breathe until his face all red. The nurse finally wear it again. Once restored, Mitchel some relief, but he asked to start moving once fight. This event continues over and over because Mitchell could not breathe. But at day 14 Mitchel finally able to breathe without wearing hearing aids.

Mitchell did not give up until there. He asked the nurse to be fed food. The nurse said "Do not, about when to congestion in the throat can be dangerous." Mitchel said, "Do not be that hard, but can be started from the fruit juice used to be." Once fed with a little fruit juice, Mitchel can not swallow, even partly out through the nose. After trying several times finally Mitchel could swallow food on day 10.

Mitchel it's time to learn to speak again. He tried tried yelling, making the nurse was shocked. Until finally, since his business so seriously, Mitchel can talk.

After that perwatnya Mitchel asked to move his hand bit by bit. After a long workout Mitchel finally able to use his hands until he could get out of the hospital by means of discussion wheels.
Short said Mitchel finally learned how to play basketball, improve their business anymore, broadcast on the radio, campaigning for disabled people, and even had time to become mayor. Even more unique, she eventually married a nurse who cared for him so far.

So what's the difference with W Mitchell Elvis Presley?
Elvis Presley's happiness depend on something that is not in their control, but W Mitchel happiness depend on something in their control.